These are some of the letters people have written into the Dom Sub site, and I have decided to publish them to help other people understand some of the basics of a contemporary Dominance Submissive Lifestyle. I use the word ‘contemporary’ for clarify the difference between past + present, old and new.
In the World of BSDM there are many worlds of thought and philosophy. The world that you choose (or decide to create) can be as varied as you like, the boundaries and rules as strong + hard edged or fluid + flexible as determined by the people in your particular circle.
There is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’, only the rules that you decide to follow. There are certain baselines that are common sense, and essential. See Safety First!