Dominant + Submissive Relationships / Domination + Submission Life

Safety First!

In order for you to have a fulfilling relationship within the Dom Sub framework safety of the partners involved is the only boundary that MUST be followed.

  • Establishing a SAFE word before play is a must.
  • If there are going to be restraints used that block the ability to have verbal communication, a SAFE signal must be established beforehand.
  • NO after a SAFE word has been uttered means NO. All play must cease at that point and all restraints removed.
  • If you are the DOM + uncertain about your ability to remain in control of a session or situation before, during or after orgasm, you are not ready to engage in this lifestyle. The life of your SUB is a stake here and you have not business in the role of DOM.
  • If you don’t know your own strength or have other physical / psychological hangups the lead to unexpected choices or ‘poor impulse control’ you should not engage in DOM SUB sessions until these things have been worked out with a therapist or medical professional.
  • Dominance and Submission (BDSM) / Dom Sub is not about working out your sadism or hatred on another person, it is about issues of control, intimacy and release.
  • This is real life, this is not theater. Take it very seriously.